My 5 cent on “When to use du and Sie” « Eintauchen

When to use du and Sie « Eintauchen. A very much recommended article by Dale Askey or @daskey.

If you ever wondered what to use when visiting Germany or meeting someone from Germany, the great overview that @daskey put together might help. Print it and put it over your desks, peeps!

Reality is, that even I as a native German sometimes struggle with this. Reason: rules are not as straight anymore! People in media for example tend to use often the “du” although they never met before. This happens especially when people are in the same age group. And personally I find that quite refreshing. I must admit that I am sometimes even a bit annoyed by the continuous “Sie” and “Du” decision making. Reason is “little me” having have been spoiled with simplicity in that respect for almost 7 years now. The Brits and the Swedes simply do not have that problem. It seems only ze Germanz and the Frenchies are putting themselves in these awkward situations requiring a decision for Du or Sie, Vous or Tu… Mindboggling sometimes, really.

Another thing I like about Dale is that he chose to spend some time at my old university of applied sciences 🙂 . Hope you have a great time, mate!

(P.S.: Even without knowing him, I would not hesitate saying “du” to Dale. But, hmmm, what if I was a student? Hmmm, it should be “Sie” then, shouldn’t it? Unless he invites me to say “du”. Well, and there we go again with all that “Schlamassel“.)

2 thoughts on “My 5 cent on “When to use du and Sie” « Eintauchen

  1. Thanks for the kind words and thoughts on the subject. I confuse students here terribly. On the one hand, I am a professor, on the other, I am an American inclined toward informality and with an inability to call anyone by their last name. I mix Sie with first names and I have noticed how that really cooks some people’s noodles. In the end, a friendly, forthright attitude gets one through these situations.

  2. Thank you Dale. You are right, that really is the best way. Unless you have an incredibly conservative person in front of you. And I reckon you as a non-German also have a bonus point from that perspective. Always good to play that card, too, if it comes down to it 🙂 .

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